"Politeness" is one of the most widely used weapons against would-be victims of crime. ⁠

Remember, you don't owe anyone. You don't have to play along. You don't have to be polite. You don't have to keep your voice down. ⁠

If your gut is telling you there is danger, you listen. ⁠

Demand. Refuse. Make a scene. Be rude. Scream. ⁠

You don't owe anyone your safety.⁠